In the wake of the death of our family dog, Bunky - my friend David shared the following passage with me. It is a theory on why dogs don't live long lives like humans, as told by a child. The author is unknown, but the post is all over the internet - and it truly is beautiful and helped to bring me some comfort while mourning my baby girl. For anyone who has lost a dog, you know there is nothing that can be said or done that will fill the aching hole in your chest. That will be there forever, but this helps ease the blow..
I told the family there were no miracles left for Belker and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog. Ron and Lisa told me that they thought it would be good for the four year old Shane to observe the procedure.
They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.
I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker’s family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few moments, Belker slipped away peacefully. The little boy seemed to accept Belker’s transition without any difficulty or confusion.
We sat together for a while after Belker’s death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, “I know why.” Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I had never heard a more comforting explanation.
“People are born so that they learn how to live a good life – like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?” The four year old continued, “Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don’t have to stay as long.”